Michelle Merrihew, DO
Neonatology, Boone Hospital NICU
I grew up in Southern California. I moved to Missouri for medical school and then completed my residency in pediatrics and fellowship in neonatal-perinatal medicine at Children’s Mercy Hospital.
Why did you get into the health care field?
When I went to college, I was undecided what I wanted to do with my life. I thought about teaching and law. Towards the end of college, I had one last biology class. There was a physician guest speaker who inspired me to enter healthcare. I remember sitting there and thinking, “I could see myself in that job.” I earned my degree and completed all the prerequisites for medical school as a post-baccalaureate. My grandfather was a chiropractor. He was so thrilled when I chose to become an osteopathic physician. I remember him telling me I would have so many opportunities to help people.
What interested you in your particular specialty?
During my medical school rotations, I enjoyed all aspects of medicine. Every doctor has a chance to advocate for the care of their patients. When I was on my OB rotation, I delivered a few babies. I thought, “Wow, this is amazing.” However, I found myself gravitating toward the newborn. After my OB rotation, I went on to my pediatrics rotation. I knew for sure then I wanted to do Pediatrics. I completed my pediatrics residency and was not sure which specialty or if I should do general pediatrics. I worked in the NICU at Children’s Mercy and knew I had found my place in medicine.
What is the most rewarding part of your job?
The best part of my job is the day we discharge a baby to go home with their family to have a long, fulfilling life. The most important thing the NICU team does outside of caring for babies is to support families. Families experience stress and grief over having an infant – or two – in the hospital. They need to know we care. Everyone on the Boone team loves taking care of babies, and we love getting them home to their families as soon as we can.
What is the most challenging aspect of your job?
It’s extremely difficult to see all the agony that parents experience when separated from their infants.
What do you see changing in health care in the next 5 to 10 years?
The biggest challenges lie with nursing. It takes years for nurses to learn their skills. Ever since Covid, we have not had as many young people interested in nursing.
What advice would you give someone looking to become a doctor?
Wow, I just did this for my nephew who entered medical school. It is a long ride but well worth it. Study hard and take breaks when you can. Never stop caring or become indifferent to the well-being of others and avoid sarcasm. Also, allow yourself to be human. I have cried in the bathroom or linen closet many times over the years. Always connect with your patients and families. People need to know how much we care for them.
What do you enjoy doing outside of work?
I enjoy spending time with my family.
What advice would you give to someone who is going to be a patient in a hospital for a period of time?
Allow yourself to experience whatever emotions you are having. It is okay to be frustrated, depressed and angry. It is all part of the grieving process when you are experiencing a health crisis. Reach out to friends and family or professionals to help you.